Totally random question...

So I have a question to all the black lesbians out there. I was randomly searching through this website and seeing who lives in Chicago, DC, or Indianapolis and I realized that a large population of studs/doms/ Aggressives/Bois or (whatever terminology you personally use) are proud parents. I have a friend who differs with me on this opinion so I wanted feedback from all of you. She says it is because aggressive women are much more prone to try and please their family for a short period of time by dating/ sleeping with men, and then end up pregnant. I TOTALLY beg to differ on that, but what are your thoughts? Is is hard to raise a child and be a stud?