So I have been asked to post this....

I have gotten a request to respond to the question "How do you know if you are a lesbian? Lawd... how do you respond to that.... If you are questioning that, then ask yourself lyricallyblue's simple questionnaire to knowing your sexuality.





Question #1) Do you catch yourself looking at another girl's body and saying to yourself "Damn she is really cute."

• I used to do this alot. Then I would convince myself that I was looking at her outfit or her body as a guide to what I wanted to look like.

Question #2) Do you go to gay events or spend alot of time with other folks who are "family"?

• I actually joined a teen gay group before I came out to myself. It was hilarious trying to convince my friends that I wanted to just be supportive of them.

Question#3) Are your friends gay? Not do you have a gay friend but are ALL your friends gay?Do you gravitate towards gay folks?

• This one is my little important question, cause it seems like when folks come out, it turns out that their friends are gay also. My best friend and I came out to each other about the same time. I had always figured he was gay and I knew that he would tell me in his own time, but I know he probably felt the same about me. And actually 3 out of the 4 folks that I was close to at the time all came out within 6 months.

Question #4) Who do you fantasize about during that moment (don't act like you don't know what I mean when I say THAT moment lol)?

• Ok be honest, who hasn't watched late night HBO or Showtime. You know you have seen those "after dark" films. I used to watch them in high school. Who do you look at? Which one do you watch? If you are watching the girls, not with admiration but with lust, then your kinda gay.

Question #5) Who do you honestly see yourself with in the future?

• As a kid, I never played house. When I did, it was me being the "husband" and taking care of my best friend. I was never attracted to guys EVER. But I thought that would come in time. When I thought about the future, I never even considered marrying a guy and had resigned myself to being alone. Or with a girl....
  

Start to ask yourself those questions and eventually the answer will come to you...